Love is the medicine of all your woes

Love is the medicine of all your woes. When you are in love it reflects on your face. Love and romance make your world go around. You show your love in every possible way such as loving your partner with all you have yet there are times when you have to show love through material gifts

"When you are alone, just look at the spaces between your fingers remember that in those spaces .You can see my fingers locked with yours forever"

Love is color Blind

"O my luve's like a red, red rose,
That's newly sprung in June:
O my luve's like the melody
That's sweetly played in tune."

Love is a color blind

Love may be a rose: beautiful, fragrant, wild, and free yet all the while unpredictable in its growing and always with thorns among the buds.
A relationship is a garden with its roses and its weeds, It requires tending to survive the seasons, the droughts; the encroaching weeds.

Loving gardeners wisely tend their flowers and reap the efforts that they sow. And so it is in love, the efforts that you sow are the loving results that you enjoy. How does your loving garden grow?

Love entices you into its arms but it is enough to hold you there for only so long. You may grow restless with reality, with the day to day tedium of work. You may itch long to have the carefree delights of passion again...to fall in love all over again just for the feeling. If you fall for that, you will find yourself moving from relationship to relationship always in search of what you only find in the beginning. Love, true long-term love requires more than just being there. It requires that you invest in your relationship; that you work with your partner to succeed. You must create a new love that is deeper and stronger than the fleeting thrill of passion.

Together you can build a bond that no one or no thing can break.
You can be comfortable in the safety of your relationship.
You can achieve your dreams with your loving partner by your side.
Then you are truly in love.
This is the opportunity and challenge of love.

What happens when two people fall in love ?

A very interesting story line about loving hearts , how behaviour changes when your get angry and love ?

A saint asked his disciples, Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?

A saint asked his disciples, 'Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?
Disciples thought for a while, one of them said, 'Because we lose our calm,
we shout' 'But, why shout when the other person is just next to you? asked the saint.

Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you're angry?'

To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.



Then the saint asked, 'What happens when two people fall in love?



















They don't shout at each other but talk softly, why?
Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small
The saint continued, 'When they like each other even more, what happens?


They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love.
Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that's all.
That is how close two people are when they love each other.
















When you argue do not let your hearts get distant, do not say words that distance each other more, else a day will come when the distance is so great that you may not find the path to return.

Strength of a Man and Beauty of a Woman

Strength of a Man


The strength of a man isn't seen in the width of his shoulders.
It is seen in the width of his arms that encircle you.
The strength of a man isn't in the deep tone of his voice.
It is in the gentle words he whispers.
The strength of a man isn't how many buddies he has.
It is how good a buddy he is with his kids.
The strength of a man isn't in how respected he is at work.
It is in how respected he is at home.
The strength of a man isn't in how hard he hits..
It is in how tender he touches.
The strength of a man isn't how many women he's Loved by.
It is in can he be true to one woman.
The strength of a man isn't in the weight he can lift.
It is in the burdens he can understand and overcome.


Beauty of a Woman
The beauty of a woman
Is not in the clothes she wears,
The figure she carries,
Or the way she combs her hair.
The beauty of a woman
Must be seen from her eyes,
Because that is the doorway to her heart,
The place where love resides.
The beauty of a woman
Is not in a facial mole,
But true beauty in a woman
Is reflected in her soul.
It is the caring that she lovingly gives,
The passion that she shows,
The beauty of a woman
With passing years-only grows.


Lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman,
but luckier is the woman who is the last love of a man

Luv Happens Only Once....
Rest Is Just Life...

communication in relationship

19 Steps to Effective Communication

1. See communication as an opportunity to praise, build-up, affirm, heal, support and give positive reinforcement, rather than to correct, criticise, tear down, hurt, wound, lash out at. Praise opens doors to further communication, while criticism shuts them down.

2. Remember that actions speak louder than words; non-verbal communication usually is more powerful than verbal communication. Avoid double messages in which the verbal and the non-verbal messages convey something contradictory. (Credibility gap)

3. Define what is important and stress it; define what is unimportant and de-emphasise or ignore it. Avoid fault-finding.

4. Communicate in ways that show respect for the other person’s worth as a human being. “Avoid statements which begin with the words “You never …” or “I think you …”.

5. Be clear and specific in your communication. Avoid vagueness.

6. Be realistic and reasonable in your statements. Avoid exaggeration and sentences which begin with “You always …”

7. Test all your assumptions verbally by asking if they are accurate. Avoid acting until this is done.

8. Recognize that each event can be seen from different points of view. Avoid assuming that other people see things like you do. (Perception)

9. Recognize that your family members and close friends are experts on you and your behaviour. Avoid the tendency to deny their observations about you – especially if you are not sure.

10. Recognize that disagreement can be a meaningful form of communication. Avoid destructive arguments.

11. Be honest and open about your feelings and viewpoints. Bring up all significant problems even if you are afraid that doing so will disturb another person. Speak the truth in love. Avoid sullen silences.

12. Do not put down and/or manipulate the other person with tactics such as ridicule, interrupting, name-calling, changing the subject, blaming, bugging, sarcasm, criticism, pouting, guilt-inducing, etc. Avoid the one-upmanship game.

13. Be more concerned about how your communication affects others than about what you intended. Avoid getting bitter if you are misunderstood.

14. Accept all feelings and try to understand why others feel and act as they do. Avoid the tendency to say, “you shouldn’t feel like that.”

15. Be tactful considerate and courteous. Avoid taking advantage of the other person’s feelings.

16. Ask questions and listen carefully. Avoid preaching or lecturing.

17. Do not use excuses. Avoid falling for the excuses of others.

18. Speak kindly politely and softly. Avoid nagging yelling or whining.

19. Recognize the value of humour and seriousness. Avoid destructive teasing.

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