A Kiss Isn’t Just a Kiss

Pecking, smooching, Frenching, and playing tonsil-hockey—there are as many names for kissing, Whether we use it as an informal greeting or an intensely romantic gesture, kissing is one of those ingrained human behaviors that seems to defy explanation. Its many purposes—a blow and peck for good luck on dice, lips to ground after a rocky boat ride, kisses in the air to an acquaintance, and the long slow smooches of Hollywood—have different meanings yet are similar in nature. So why is it that we love to pucker up?

A Kiss Isn’t Just a Kiss
Philematologists, the scientists who study kissing, aren’t exactly sure why humans started locking lips in the first place. The most likely theory is that it stems from primate mothers passing along chewed food to their toothless babies. The lip-to-lip contact may have been passed on through evolution, not only as a necessary means of survival, but also as a general way to promote social bonding and as an expression of love.

Kissing allows us to get close enough to a mate to assess essential characteristics about them, none of which we’re consciously processing. Part of this information exchange is most likely facilitated by pheromones, chemical signals that are passed between animals to help send messages. We know that animals use pheromones to alert their peers of things like mating, food sources, and danger, and researchers hypothesize that pheromones can play a role in human behavior as well. Although the vomeronasal organs, which are responsible for pheromone detection and brain function in animals, are thought to be vestigial and inactive in humans, research indicates we do communicate with chemicals.

One of the best things about kissing, however, is that we don’t have to think about any of this. Just close eyes, pucker up, and let nature takes its course

Man End up with heartbreak and an empty wallet.

When a man finds a woman attractive, he will usually do anything that he can to make her want to be with him. As a result of all of his efforts, he usually ends up watching her walk away with another guy. This can make you wonder.

How to attract a women?

Here are a few things to keep in mind when you want to know how to attract women:
You have to learn some things from experience. Don't allow your lack of knowledge or success with women hold you back from gaining experience.
Get out there and find a woman and do what you can to make her feel attracted to you. The best teacher is usually a little life experience,

Don't try to buy her affection. This is about the worst thing that you can do.
Most guys will fall into this trap, this money pit. Instead of trying to win a woman over with his personality, most guys will try to spend money on her in hopes that it will somehow sway her affection their way. All end up with is a heartbreak and an empty wallet.

She needs to see YOU as a man that other women want. This is often overlooked, but very important. If a woman thinks that no other woman out there really wants to be with you, she will lose her attraction for you very quickly. You have to serve her up with some social proof that there are other women out there.
Let her catch you flirting once in a while. Nothing that crosses the line. Just enough to show her that you ARE an in demand man and that other women do find you attractive.

No difference between romance and sex. Completely wrong notion. Romance can, in the least, is a precursor to sex. If a person becomes romantic, with only sex in mind, he will soon meet his Waterloo. Consider romance as a mere “mental foreplay”. It helps you to inform your loved one what your feelings are and that you have taken care to express your feelings.

If you have been dating awhile and he hasn't committed to you yet then something is up. A commitment should come after a reasonable amount of time and after developing the relationship so far. This is especially true if your relationship includes physical intimacy.